Accelerated NLP Training – what is the barrier to you creating something amazing in your life – right now?
I used to be a great fan of Bruce Lee, watch all his movies and read several of his books. What fascinated me was not just that he was ‘the best of the best’ but the deeply philosophical and universal nature of his art and teachings to the world. There was so much more than just the art of fighting… there was a deep curiosity and purpose behind everything he shared in his short life.
Having lived between Ibiza and India in the last two years; doing a lot of NLP Training and soul searching, I found it very challenging and unsettling moving back to the UK a couple of months ago. A lot of people who come on my workshops experience overwhelm, uncertainty and even paralysis in their businesses and lives and I got a flavour of all three recently when I moved back to the UK… with a new environment, a new relationship, ‘new weather’ and a very different culture from the more laid-back beaches of Ibiza and India!
Despite giving and receiving NLP Training when I got back to the UK, I found myself isolated living in the countryside, unsure what direction to take my business and challenged to the core with a new relationship I had developed with an old girlfriend.
Over thinking leads to indecision, indecision leads to procrastination and procrastination leads to paralysis. NLP Traing
Here are the 7 simple steps I took to move from overwhelm and uncertainly to gaining massive momentum and injecting my life and business with passion and purpose again. You can take these too, right now. I sincerely hope they help and would welcome your feedback and comments: NLP Training
- NLP Training Tip 1 – Reach out
- get some professional coaching or go on a workshop to help you move past any blocks you perceive you have. As I said, staying stuck is stupid. That was the first step for me but it took a while to do that… in retrospect, too long!
- NLP Training Tip 2 - Consistently open up your life and business to a new paradigm and perspective – explore new perspectives and choices; challenge your assumptions, beliefs and language; get inspired and excited. From that place anything becomes possible! I went on some very powerful nlp training to do that
- NLP Training Tip 3 – Change your environment - get into nature, go into town, be with friends, be alone…. change your environment and you change your perspective. As most problems are in our thinking, allowing our external world to change often helps our internal world change.
- NLP Training Tip 4 – Surround yourself with enlightened people who are playing with life, not just getting by - Franklin’s Law states that we become like those we surround ourselves with. Benjamin Franklin, one of the Founding Fathers of the Unites States, was correct. Get inspired, passionate and purposeful by spending time with those kind of people… regularly!
- NLP Training Tip 5 - Commit to the significant decision you’ve been putting off - what’s the biggest decision you have been putting off? What’s the barrier to you creating something amazing in your life right now? What changes do you really want in your life? If need be, get some coaching to make those decisions, especially if you are not sure what they are or how to resolve them.
- NLP Training Tip 6 - Be accountable - make sure any decisions you make have an aspect of accountability so that you have to take action, and can learn from the results or lack thereof. Remember over thinking leads to indecision which leads to procrastination which leads to paralysis. But action creates clarity. So be accountable for your decisions and actions to ensure you make progress… and more importantly to ensure you learn from your experience.
- NLP Training Tip 7 - Get feedback - learning from your own experience and the perspective of someone else helps you make new distinctions and open up new possibilities. Feedback is the lifeblood of business… and life! Ask for it. And notice it’s in and all around you all the time!
If you just take these 7 simple steps your life will change and everything in it. If you’re interested in finding out more about NLP Coaching or Training you can do so here.
Hi Tris, Love the reminder about the power of simple action and your 7-steps… motivational rocket fuel!!!
Which one is the most motivational rocket fuel for you Lesley… which one is going to be the difference that makes a difference for you this week
This is an excellent post..thanks for giving me a nudge Tristan. I enjoy your openness, which says to me that no matter how much we know we can all get stuck from time to time. The important thing is to get back in the flow and using just one of your ideas will help anyone do that.
Thanks John… funny that isn’t it… we’re only ever one idea away from a breakthrough or getting back in the flow. The problem comes often when we have too many ideas. Simplicity on the side of complexity!
Very rue! over thinking leads to indecision which leads to procrastination n hence to paralysis… and actions creates clarity.
Simplicity indeed is the key to brilliance.
sometime we spend years together… to take major decisions which can keep us happy and peaceful.
All these years i use to think freedom is in getting what i want but now i have experienced that real freedom is in letting go off… n in giving.
Holding on too tight made me anxious n restless and after letting go off.. i feel the lightness in my body n thinking. the feeling is just so beautiful.
wonderful! its very true that actions leads to clarity n indecisions to paralysis.
Great post!
Dear Tristan, you are so on the money. Since last talking with in Ibiza, I ,too, relocated back to the old home land UK
and had my share of disorientation from my mostly, Canadian lifestlye. Now, I am back in Canada after spending a year traveling and learning and manifesting, along with the new dramas of manifesting a new life. I too had sense of overwhelm at times, regardless of my achievments, I sometimes have felt paralysed…if I was to offer one golden seed that helped me move on to more fulfillment and calm, it is..do one thing. Do not worry too much which one thing out of the many you think you need to do. Just do one thing. Still stuck, do the smallest thing. Then tomorrow do one more thing, pretty soon you will be back on track, and into the universal flow. I also loved (of course) your comment re change your environment. Hugs to Tristan..you are a gem.
Hey Anna… great to hear from you and thanks for your comments. And how right you are about doing just one small thing!! Simple hey… yet how often we over complicate things. I got this email today which touched me…
It’s kind of strange, but first you have to know what you want, defined in terms of the end result. And then you have to physically move towards it, without defining the hows. At which point, the thing you want actually starts coming to you, on its own terms, from a direction completely unexpected.
Not unlike a cat,
The Universe
From an NLP perspective the ‘next step’ is one of the key criteria of a well formed outcome…. so yes, just a small next step….
Little by little…
Rome wasn’t built in a day…
How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time
Thanks Anna… and you too are most certainly a gem. Have a lovely evening…
Lots of love
Tristan
Tristan,
I am still working through Number 1.
I am a slow learner.
Or un-learner.
C