
Welcome to my website. I am Certified Master Trainer of NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming), Author, Coach, Successful Entrepreneur & Property Investor. I am also the developer of The Spotlight System™. I have come to discovered that there are three controlling forces in our lives - questions, beliefs and our patterns of thinking and behaviour.
I teach people how to lead and how to live. And how to take control of these three controlling forces. I developed the Spotlight System™ – an accelerated peak performance and thought-leading coaching platform – to support coaches, entrepreneurs and leaders who want to make a difference in the world.
My personal journey has largely informed my work. Following a very unstable childhood and becoming heavily in debt in my twenties I succeeded in turning my life around. I overcame depression and low self-esteem and ended up running a number of successful businesses, ultimately turning over £100,000 a month. In some respects I’ve been there, done it, got the t-shirt and lost it! I have been homeless, beaten and broke but ultimately I have grown richer for all these challenging and varied experiences.
Having read ‘The 4 Hour Work Week’ years ago I committed to that lifestyle and have lived between India, Ibiza and the UK for the last 6 years. I now help people realise their unsuspected greatness, step into their potential and accelerate the accomplishment of their dreams, both on a personal and business level.
What I’ve learned from my rich and varied life, I now share with others. My real-life experience, together with the skills and tools learned from the study of NLP, has enabled me to connect with anyone from any background, help people call life on their terms and get profound results. I now coach a wide range of people – from elite athletes to coaches, trainers and successful business people using the unique and revolutionary platform I have developed to accelerate success in life – The Spotlight System™.
It’s been said that I not only have the necessary knowledge, skills and tools to help people but also the real-life experience to connect with anyone from any background, and get results!
My focus now is coaching and inspiring people to embrace their uniqueness and authenticity while in the service of others through unique coaching programmes and workshops that offer unparalleled support. These NLP Introductions, NLP Business Practitioners and High Performance Coaching Programmes are a unique combination of NLP, principles from ‘The 4 Hour Work Week’ and a modelling of resourcefulness born from within each of us.
I am deeply grateful that over the last 10 years I have built a reputation for building various businesses using NLP principles, which has ultimately enabled me to take years off traveling the world; living and working where I want. I am committed to pioneering new paradigms in NLP for personal and professional transformation so that we can all leave a legacy and a World that our children can be proud of. I am currently writing my second book ‘New Life Paradigm²’.
You can see some of my recommendations on LinkedIn or business and life changing Testimonials on this website. Alternatively, feel free to contact me on +44 (0) 7786 654 320 or via email at tristan@tristansoames.com.
“It is not the strongest of the species that thrive, nor the most intelligent, but the ones most proactive in change.” Tristan Soames ( & a little Charles Darwin)


